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Complete all 29 questions independently. You can go back and change any answer before submitting.
Private couples assessment18+
The Intimacy & Compatibility Test
Answer separately. Compare together. Discover where you truly match.
Explore how closely you align on communication, intimacy, attraction, sexual preferences, boundaries and relationship expectations—through a private assessment you each complete independently.
29 questions
About 10 minutes each
Two private links
How it works
Made for better conversations
Your partner joins
Share a private invitation link so your partner can complete the same assessment independently.
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Receive compatibility, sexual match, relationship security and combined conversation insights.
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Set up the two of you
The standard result is designed for couples who broadly consider their relationship romantically and sexually exclusive.
Three separate lenses
One relationship. More than one number.
The test keeps preference alignment separate from boundary and transparency signals.
Overall Compatibility
How closely your communication, connection and relationship preferences correspond.
Sexual Match
How closely frequency, adventurousness, style and sexual communication align.
Relationship Security
Transparency, commitment attitudes and boundary-related behaviour—never a probability of cheating.